How to Get a Woman to Treat You the Way You Deserve

How to Get a Woman to Treat You the Way You Deserve
By John Alexander
Author, How to Become an Alpha Male

You know the scenario. You start dating a woman. After the first date, all you get is a peck on the cheek.

Second date, you get a mouth kiss. Third date, you hold hands. It's a very slow process.

You can't understand why it has to take so long to have sex with the woman. After all, you're buying her meals. You even splurged on some pretty flowers.

In short... you're being incredibly nice to the woman. So what's the problem? Why won't she have sex with you?

It comes down to human motivation. People behave in ways that cause them to get rewarded. They avoid behaviors that cause them punishment.

So the reason why guys often have trouble getting laid is because they reward bad behavior. A chick will lead them on and then make it clear there won't be sex that night, yet the guy rewards her by cuddling with her.



A better solution would be to punish the bad behavior by being a lot less interested in cuddling with her. Never underestimate the power of getting up from the couch and walking out the door.

Remember, to harvest the full enjoyment out of life and to have women be attracted to you, you need to be an alpha male. That means being powerful. So make sure you get treated the way you deserve to be.

Did a chick do something (like have sex with you) that deserves rewarding? Then go ahead and do something nice for her. Take her on a date to a fancy restaurant. Buy her filet mignon and Don Perignon (if you've got the money).

Does a chick just string you along, telling you nice things that she would do for you if only she didn't have a boyfriend? Then withdraw your attention, and go talk to other girls instead of her.

Frame all of your behavior towards women in terms of punishment and reward, and you'll be treated the way you deserve (or else you'll move onto another woman who WILL treat you right).

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What Men Desperately Want You To Know (But Will Never Tell You)

What Men Desperately Want You To Know (But Will Never Tell You)

The first conversation can make or break the future of the potential relationship.

The first conversation can make or break the future of the potential relationship. In other words, the goal of the “first” conversation should be to make it stimulating enough for the other person to want a “second” conversation – and this doesn’t happen by gathering “statistics” about the person.
What it means: Many women who find themselves on the search for “the one” strike up casual conversations with potential suitors and only ask “interview style” questions.
“What do you do?”
“How long have you worked there?”
“Where are you from?”
“What brings you here?”
While these types of questions are okay to ask, they fail to make the conversation stimulating and memorable for both parties.
The key to getting a guy to want that “second” conversation with you is digging deeper! No, this doesn’t mean that you have to carry your gardening trowel in purse when you go out. “Digging deeper” simply means that you need to use the first conversation to ask about his passions and interests. Believe me, you’ll get a far better picture of a man by asking about his interests, as opposed to his job history!

If you want the “first” conversation to result in a “second” conversation, make the first one memorable by digging deeper and finding out more about the guy than what’s listed on his resume.

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If men are not approaching you, there might be something that's making you “unapproachable”. Men are always approaching women, but there are certain situations that will stop them in their tracks: a group of women, a woman who is sitting down, a “mean” facial expression, etc. Are you preventing men from approaching you?

Men work in mysterious ways and the thing that they strive to protect most in life is their “ego”. Yes, no man likes a shattered ego. Because of this, men typically approach women that look “safe” – rather than going up to someone that is likely to embarrass or reject them.
For example, most men refrain from approaching a woman that is surrounded by a group of friends. Going up to a group of women is intimidating and requires the man to impress all the ladies, rather than just one. This drives the odds of actually striking up a conversation with the lady he has his eye on through the floor.

Bottom Line: If you want men to approach you more frequently, learn how men view certain situations and position yourself in a more approachable manner.

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Top 10 Ways to Fail to Get Your Ex Back

Why does some relationships fail despite how hard one couple might try?

You might be aware why your relationship didn’t pan out so well; it might be an argument, an affair, a misunderstanding or a lack of trust and appreciation.

You might be worried you’ll make more mistakes so you might not take action at all.

Here are the Top 10 things that might be stopping you from get your ex back.
10. Are you taking it seriously?

If you want your lover back, you need to be committed. You need a plan you can follow seriously. If you doubt yourself, if you think you can win them back by doing what you’ve always done, you might not see the results you want.
9. Not willing to change.

If you’re completely honest with yourself, are you willing to do change to get your ex back? Are you willing to risk and sacrifice anything for them?
8. Inner conflicts.

Perhaps the reason for the collapse of the relationship is rooted deep within yourself. If you are having emotional issues with yourself, such as dependancy or insecurity, then maybe your energy should be redirected to fixing and mending your self-love first.
7. Not paying attention or understanding what they want.

Redirect your attention away from how much pain you are feeling right now. Instead consider it from your ex-lover’s point of view. Have you hurt them just as much? How can you help them?
6. Are you taking action?

Simply saying you’ll change and things will be better does not equal being so. To show your ex you really are going to change, you need to start putting that change into action. Showing your ex how committed you are means more to them than any words you could say.
5. Are you confident?

People are attracted to those that are strong and confident. For men, if your girlfriend has left you don’t simply shower them with attention, gifts and whatever else (unless that was the reason you broke up). Identity the root of the problem and go from there. If you apologize blindly without dealing with the core issues, your ex will see through your blatant persuasions and won’t fall for it.
4. Panic.

Panicing at this stage will only do you a great deal of unnecessary damage. This means drunk dialing, smsing one after another, stalking, talking to their friends/family to try to get them to talk to you. ALL TO BE AVOIDED.
3. Misbeliefs about gaining their trust and love back.

You can never EXPECT them to come back. Thinking that way will be evident in your actions and this will only repell them. Be genuine and loving to them but never expect to get the same in return.
2. Too proud.

You need to realize what is most important. Winning the battle or winning back love and rebuilding a meaningful relationship. Swallow your pride and don’t let a good thing go just because of your ego.
1. Self-abuse.

It is much too common for people to drown in their sollows with alcohol, drugs or anything of that nature. This is NOT the time to start being self-destructive. You need to be in the BEST shape you can be right now. Meaning eating healthy, exercising, getting out of the house. Substance abuse is not only bad for your body, it will make you feel WORSE not better in the longrun.

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7 Ways to Make Your Ex Fall in Love With You

You might not realize it but you have major advantage over anyone else when it comes to making your ex fall back in love with you. Think about it, you had their heart once and that love for you never dies if it was true. No matter how long it has been, how often you talk, you’ll always have a place in their hearts whether they admit it or not.

But you want to know how to re-ignite those flames and have them burn with passion again.

So here it is: 7 ways to making your ex fall back in love with you.
Become free

If you’re in love with your ex and this is something your ex is aware of, it’s harder to make your ex fall in love because they know you’ll always be there waiting. People only want something they can’t have so by making yourself available to them they will not be as inclined to ‘want’ you in that way.
Make yourself scarce

Don’t allow yourself to be readily available to your ex. You have your own life that is separate from them now. Don’t wait around hoping your ex will contact you. Go out and do things that you enjoy. You’ll be amazed how fast things will start to happen once you’re not ‘waiting’ around for it.
Take care of yourself

Get yourself to feel good again. Do whatever that works for you to get you energized and pumped to face the day everyday. This could be going for a run in the morning, getting a new hair cut, learning some yoga or going camping. It’s amazing but when we feel down, the quickest way to cheer ourselves up is by moving around. So get those juices flowing. When you’re pumped and enjoying life, you pull people towards you.
Become grateful

It’s completely amazing what will happen and how you’ll feel once you are grateful for everything in your life. It’s weird but by simply feeling grateful, everyone around you sense that you ‘have’ something they don’t have. Like I said, people are desperate for things they don’t have. When you appear to HAVE everything, everyone will want what YOU have! It’s weird. You’ll glow inside and out and your ex will be driving themselves crazy thinking about what has changed!
Let go of the past

We tend to want to dwell on past issues. You’ll especially be driving yourself crazy thinking about what went wrong with your relationship and how you want things to be different. I want you to know in order to make your ex fall in love, you need let go of those negative feelings and thoughts. Not only will you make them want you, you’ll feel a huge weight lifted from you and that will show through when they see you.
Embracing change

Let’s admit it, no one is perfect, but what is worse is if we accepted that was the way things were and never welcomed and allowed change. Thing is, change is the only sure thing in the world. If we’re going to change, why not embrace it and try to change for the better. When we set goals for ourselves and take steps to achieve our goals, we’re not only building our self-confidence but you’re letting your ex know that you’re working on your flaws. Action speaks ten fold compared to words, and its actions that will make your ex fall crazy in love with you.
Lastly and most importantly, give love to yourself first

We have all heard the saying ‘you need to love yourself first before you can ever love anyone else’. Once you gain that unconditional love for yourself, you’ll no longer rely on others to validate your sense of worth.

For example if your ex made a comment that might potentially hurt you, you won’t allow it to bother you anymore because no one else’s opinion can mean more to you than your own.

When love is readily available inside you, you won’t seek to others for that love. When you stop needing love from your ex, it is then when your ex will give their love to you.

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How To Save A Dying Relationship

We all want our romantic relationships to last. As much as possible, we hope to make it as smooth sailing as possible. Nonetheless, such ideal situation never really exists. There will come a time when disagreement between couples will surface. Problems and confrontations will arise, and soon after, what seemed to be inseparable and indestructible begins to crumble and shatter into pieces. You then wonder how you can save your dying relationship.

Of course, if you were in this case, you’d want to save the dying relationship. You’d do anything in your power to bring back the pieces together. We cannot afford to lose someone we hold so dear to our heart that’s why we struggle to find ways to patch things up.

In most cases, the early stages of a relationship determine if a couple is meant to last. It is where you get to know your partner better and that is the time when you decide if you can accept everything that your partner is. This is the time when you try to adjust yourself toward your partner and you also work on compromising some of your own ideals and preferences for the sake of attuning your lifestyle, and probably your mindset, parallel to your partner.

At times, conflicts may arise and you may at times feel that things aren’t working out the way they’re supposed to. Then you start getting frustrated, and slowly, your ties begin to loosen up, beginning to separate the bonds that once were so strong.

It is a sad ending if such happens. Sometimes, pride gets in the way. Because of anger and frustration, you end up losing the relationship.

The thing is, because of too much pride and anger you forget to realize the worth of your partner. You tend to disregard everything that you’ve been through. More often than not, you realize these things but a little late than necessary. This will bring you much pain than you’ve ever felt which will make you think what you could have done instead.

There’s a lot you can do to save your relationship. However, no matter what plan of action you choose, the success of saving the relationship wells from both of your conscious effort to make things work.

Both of you must want to patch things up. You must take time to understand the situation, accept the things you’ve done wrong, and start with a determined stance of making things better for the sake of love. At times, your partner may want to have some space and time to mull things over and that is perfectly okay.

Communication is key; everything works out when there is communication. Let your partner know what you want and don’t want, and what you’re willing to compromise. Make your partner feel that you want the relationship to last and that you are willing to give anything just to make it work.

Coming into terms to save a dying relationship may be complex for some but it is relatively easy. This stems from your sincerity and genuine desire to be with the one you love. If you have that in your heart, then nothing can be a problem.

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