The first conversation can make or break the future of the potential relationship. In other words, the goal of the “first” conversation should be to make it stimulating enough for the other person to want a “second” conversation – and this doesn’t happen by gathering “statistics” about the person.
What it means: Many women who find themselves on the search for “the one” strike up casual conversations with potential suitors and only ask “interview style” questions.
“What do you do?”
“How long have you worked there?”
“Where are you from?”
“What brings you here?”
While these types of questions are okay to ask, they fail to make the conversation stimulating and memorable for both parties.
The key to getting a guy to want that “second” conversation with you is digging deeper! No, this doesn’t mean that you have to carry your gardening trowel in purse when you go out. “Digging deeper” simply means that you need to use the first conversation to ask about his passions and interests. Believe me, you’ll get a far better picture of a man by asking about his interests, as opposed to his job history!
If you want the “first” conversation to result in a “second” conversation, make the first one memorable by digging deeper and finding out more about the guy than what’s listed on his resume.
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