You might not realize it but you have major advantage over anyone else when it comes to making your ex fall back in love with you. Think about it, you had their heart once and that love for you never dies if it was true. No matter how long it has been, how often you talk, you’ll always have a place in their hearts whether they admit it or not.
But you want to know how to re-ignite those flames and have them burn with passion again.
So here it is: 7 ways to making your ex fall back in love with you.
Become free
If you’re in love with your ex and this is something your ex is aware of, it’s harder to make your ex fall in love because they know you’ll always be there waiting. People only want something they can’t have so by making yourself available to them they will not be as inclined to ‘want’ you in that way.
Make yourself scarce
Don’t allow yourself to be readily available to your ex. You have your own life that is separate from them now. Don’t wait around hoping your ex will contact you. Go out and do things that you enjoy. You’ll be amazed how fast things will start to happen once you’re not ‘waiting’ around for it.
Take care of yourself
Get yourself to feel good again. Do whatever that works for you to get you energized and pumped to face the day everyday. This could be going for a run in the morning, getting a new hair cut, learning some yoga or going camping. It’s amazing but when we feel down, the quickest way to cheer ourselves up is by moving around. So get those juices flowing. When you’re pumped and enjoying life, you pull people towards you.
Become grateful
It’s completely amazing what will happen and how you’ll feel once you are grateful for everything in your life. It’s weird but by simply feeling grateful, everyone around you sense that you ‘have’ something they don’t have. Like I said, people are desperate for things they don’t have. When you appear to HAVE everything, everyone will want what YOU have! It’s weird. You’ll glow inside and out and your ex will be driving themselves crazy thinking about what has changed!
Let go of the past
We tend to want to dwell on past issues. You’ll especially be driving yourself crazy thinking about what went wrong with your relationship and how you want things to be different. I want you to know in order to make your ex fall in love, you need let go of those negative feelings and thoughts. Not only will you make them want you, you’ll feel a huge weight lifted from you and that will show through when they see you.
Embracing change
Let’s admit it, no one is perfect, but what is worse is if we accepted that was the way things were and never welcomed and allowed change. Thing is, change is the only sure thing in the world. If we’re going to change, why not embrace it and try to change for the better. When we set goals for ourselves and take steps to achieve our goals, we’re not only building our self-confidence but you’re letting your ex know that you’re working on your flaws. Action speaks ten fold compared to words, and its actions that will make your ex fall crazy in love with you.
Lastly and most importantly, give love to yourself first
We have all heard the saying ‘you need to love yourself first before you can ever love anyone else’. Once you gain that unconditional love for yourself, you’ll no longer rely on others to validate your sense of worth.
For example if your ex made a comment that might potentially hurt you, you won’t allow it to bother you anymore because no one else’s opinion can mean more to you than your own.
When love is readily available inside you, you won’t seek to others for that love. When you stop needing love from your ex, it is then when your ex will give their love to you.
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